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SPIRITUAL DIRECTION







                stage where people, through detachment, begin to experience love
                rather than fear of God as their motivation.

                Spiritual Direction for Stage 3
                  Sufi spiritual direction moves spiritual directees in three steps at this
                stage. First, they are challenged to let go of their desire for worldly
                gain and improvement. Since these focus on the ego, they are blocks
                to progress. Second, the Sufi Shaykh becomes the “beloved execution-
                er” by challenging the disciple to begin to give up the inner desire for
                all benefits for the self, even spiritual states. The Shaykh undermines   Although
                the patterns of inner identity that matter to the disciple because they
                trap the consciousness. The aim is for the disciple to become detached   spiritual
                from everything. Third, disciples are encouraged to realize the worth-
                lessness of their own spiritual realization because even their spiritual   directors may
                renunciation is about them, not God (Vaughan-Lee 2009).
                  Teresa recommends that spiritual directees at this stage have some-  use their
                one more advanced than they are to give them light and urge them
                on because the complacency that some people at stage three espouse   same basic
                means that they prefer not to be challenged (Teresa [a], 68; Burrows,
                34). Spiritual direction needs to focus on spiritual directees’ inte-  methodology
                rior tests to surrender and trust God, which test the soul’s sincerity
                (McLean, 6), especially during the trial of aridity. Spiritual directees   of spiritual
                at this stage also need to be challenged to assume adult responsibility   direction with
                for their own decisions rather than surrender their agency to others,
                for example church authorities, and to respond to God’s invitation   people at the
                to a relationship of companionship, guidance, and support (Michael,
                109–10).
                                                                              various stages,
                Stage 4                                                       they can be
                  The fourth station of the Sufi path is faqr or poverty, the refusal
                of non-spiritual attachments and desires. Attar calls it the Valley of   challenged by
                Detachment (185). Travellers on the Divine path have reached the
                stage of being independent of worldly possessions, and their need of   the difference
                God alone is their foremost concern, which leads to the emergence
                of a universal perspective on life. A saying describes this stage: “The   in content
                life of the heart is in the knowledge of God alone.” Yet they are called
                by God to even further renunciation. The mystical path continues   experienced.
                to draw the travellers into the abyss of non-being. This experience of
                nothingness can be frightening, even terrifying (Vaughan-Lee 2000,
                188). The detachment from desire at this stage is referring to non-
                spiritual desires. At later stations of the heart, even good spiritual
                desires are eschewed as part of the annihilation of the self.
                  This station is Teresa’s mansion of transition and transformation,
                the first stage of the Illuminative Way. She saw that we ourselves do
                the work in the first three stages, whereas in stages four to seven the

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