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            media posts daily or as often as possible - at     5. Ponder ways of connecting with the 80% of the
            least twice a week. Social media does not work        population that attends no religious services.
            consistently because people don’t post consis-     6. Have your own spiritual director and note how
            tently. Study books on how to do social media         it feels to be a client when you meet with him/
            networking.                                           her.

                                                                                    Dr. Bruce Tallman  has been
          20. Final Keys: Remember as you build your                                in private practice as a full-
            practice that you are doing this not to get rich,                       time spiritual director since
            but because you love others, and want to serve                          2002. He works mainly with
            them and God. Always remember: it is God,                               clergy from every Christian
            prayer, ethics, your efforts, and living spiritual
            values that build your practice.                                        denomination.       He     has
                                                                                    published two books for
          OTHER TIPS                                                                spiritual directors: Archetypes
                                                                                    for     Spiritual    Direction:
                                                                                    Discovering     the     Heroes
          1. Money follows relationships. Trust that referrals
            follow love, service and other spiritual values    Within (Paulist Press, 2005) and  Finding Seekers:
            and virtues like wisdom, patience, humility.       How to Develop a Spiritual Direction Practice from
                                                               Beginning to Full-Time Employment. His most
          2. Always thank people who refer clients to you      recent book is God’s Ecstatic Love: Transform Your
            and keep track of where referrals come from.       Life with a Spiritual Masterpiece (Apocryphile Press).

          3. Do a 1–3-hour weekly review and planning          From 1988 to 2002 Bruce was the director of two
            session: review possible contacts and presen-      adult religious education centers for the Roman
            tations, brainstorm plans for upcoming weeks       Catholic Diocese of London, Ontario. Bruce has
            and months.                                        a Doctor of Ministry degree in Spiritual Direction
          4. Constantly educate people about spiritual         from the Graduate Theological Foundation. He
            direction.                                         is also an adjunct faculty member of the Haden
                                                               Institute of Spiritual Directors.








































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